Start with observations
Absence or withdrawal may have many explanations. A discreet conversation based on observations and an open question is preferable to interpreting someone’s psychological state.

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Absence or withdrawal may have many explanations. A discreet conversation based on observations and an open question is preferable to interpreting someone’s psychological state.
Explain available resources and let the person choose their next step. Support contacts should not create lists of supposedly vulnerable students or share confidences with teaching staff.
Choose an initial need, audience and contact person. Birds Meet can help shape an appropriate format. This resource is informational and does not replace individual professional advice.
A welcoming room is not enough: structure, facilitation and referral give a discussion space its purpose.
Learn morePrevention works best when it starts before the busiest weeks.
Learn moreA support contact can welcome a request without becoming a therapist.
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